Hi, I’m Shandai (Daisy)
I would like to take this opportunity to introduce myself and let you in into my world a little….
I was first certified as a Professional Cuddler at Cuddlist.com in 2016. I had been seeking out services for myself after seeing an ad on social media, but I stayed for the training. It felt so right to be able to offer what I needed in that moment to others in their time of need. As a self-identified ‘people pleaser’ I was so excited to see that it wasn’t JUST “Cuddle School.” Much of the training focused on learning to embrace healthy consent practices, setting up boundaries, and staying safe. Once I was certified, I cuddled until I was well into pregnancy, which was a unique experience for both myself and my clients. I then took a break while I got the little human I made up and running with life.
More recently I have recertified with Cuddlist’s latest version of the training and I love it! I am also certified in Mental Health First Aid and currently taking a certification course to teach meditation. I hope to add modalities as they inspire me, so there will be something for everyone!
So happy to be back, and so excited to help you on your journey! Thank you for being here you wonderful human you!
TESTIMONIALS
Shandai’s Nuggets of Wisdom
“There is no shame claiming an activity that harkens back to youR childhood need for nurturing — it’s not just a childhood need, it’s a human one”
(not a review just some wise words)
M.D. (client review)
“Shandai was very professional and welcoming. She listened to my concerns and answered all of questions. The session was very relaxing and therapeutic. I love having my hair played with and was able to get a lot of that in a very positive and comfortable environment. I will definitely book again.”
J.G. (client review)
“Working with Shandai has helped improve my life. Her service is very professional, and she creates a wonderful welcoming space where one can relax and feel safe. As a person who misses having close, personal contact in my life, Shandai has helped me feel loved and protected. After seeing her, I have slept better and felt more at ease in life.”
S.B. (client review)
“Shandai is very respectful, she's kind and willing to work with what you need. Her space is relaxing … I spent an hour just being able to relax, and it was so good for me. Thank you!!!”
I aM willing to bet you have QUESTIONS about my most requested service:
“I NEED a Cuddle”
I will get you started with the common ones BELOW…
(you can find more answers on the FAQ page)
FIRST and FOREMOST: I AM NOT A SEX WORKER
All of my services (including “I need a Cuddle”) are of the platonic variety. I would never judge someone for seeking out services that go beyond the scope of what I do. They will just have to go elsewhere to find those kinds of services.
What if I get aroused?
Bodies are funny like that. It is perfectly natural for your body to react this way. I will ask that arousal is not pursued during our session. If needed you can take a break, drink some water, or I may ask that a pillow be placed strategically for our comfort.
Can’t I just get cuddles from friends or my partner for free?
Of course! If you are already having your needs met, these services might not be for you. Ask yourself if you are finding regular time to schedule physical contact with someone. You might discover you are having trouble making it fit into your and your partners’ busy schedules.
What are the benefits of BOOKING a professional Cuddle Session?
Its a space of non-judgement for you to get your needs met by someone who is enthusiastic and practiced. Being touch starved is SUCH a common ailment in our Hustle Culture. The oxytocin you get from connecting with another human being alone is reason to book. I call that the best kind of self care!
What if all i want is to talk?
I am so here for it! You could book a different kind of session (“I need an Audience”) or you can book a Cuddle Session in the event it might just take some time for you to warm up to having touch in your session. I know that not everyone is immediately comfortable with the idea of touching and being touched by a stranger, this is NOT disappointing to me. This is for you, and I am happy to hold space for you in any way I can.